For anyone waiting for me to apologize:
Youāll be waiting a very long time.
Let me be absolutely clear – I have nothing to apologize for.
Not for standing up for myself.
Not for asserting my rights.
And certainly not for refusing to accept being treated like Iām less deserving of respect, dignity, and fairness.
Where the Apology Belongs š
If anything, this community owes me an apology.
For knowing what was happening.
For watching while abuse, harassment, and retaliation unfolded right in front of them.
For staying silent, pretending it wasnāt happening, because speaking up would have beenā¦ inconvenient.
Selective Outrage š¾
And letās not forget the hypocrisy.
The same people who whispered about ārulesā and āfairnessā had multiple pets in their own units. They broke the rules they weaponized against me. I did not break any rules.
Yet somehow, I was the villain.
Somehow, I became the problem.
Somehow, the entire focus turned to me – not because of what I did, but because I refused to back down and āknow my place.ā
Doing Nothing Is a Choice š
You saw the harassment.
You knew the facts.
And you did nothing.
Silence is not neutral.
Silence sides with the abuser.
When you watched, said nothing, and turned away, you became part of the problem. You enabled the abuse.
Why I Will Never Apologize ā
Because I stood up.
Because I defended my rights when no one else would.
Because I refused to accept bullying disguised as āenforcementā or āpolicy.ā
Iāve carried the weight of your apathy and your judgment.
You, meanwhile, carried nothing – except the comfort of pretending it wasnāt your problem.
Your Move š
The apology youāre waiting for?
It isnāt coming.
But hereās the part you donāt want to hear:
Itās you who should be apologizing –
For enabling this mess.
For ignoring the abuse.
For pointing fingers at the wrong person while protecting the wrong people.
And until that day comes, I will keep speaking out.
Loudly.
Relentlessly.
Unapologetically.
